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Looking for my better half

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SelfCare
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My Sect
Sunni
Religiousness
Religious
My Profession
Education
Marital Status
Divorced
County/State
East Midlands
Country
United Kingdom
Registration Reason
I'm registering to find myself a partner

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A Little Bit About Me
Looking for a man in his masculine energy so I can embrace my feminine.

A man who is able to communicate his thoughts and feelings and is willing to make a marriage work. Marriage is a compromise between individuals, it’s hard work. If you are someone who will match my energy drop me a message and maybe we can connect.

A woman radiates when she is loved properly; her nervous system heals when she knows her husband has her back. It’s the emotional safety he provides when he cares for her putting her needs above his own needs. In return, the woman becomes the woman he desires.

I don’t have a long list of wants in a man. Nor do I want to exhaust you with details about my likes and dislikes. That would be something we can discuss and find out about.

In saying that, my one pet peeve is someone who is messy and doesn’t take care of themselves.

Here’s a non exhaustive list about moi:

1. I love travelling; the world is a beautiful place and I’d love to travel more with my best friend, my partner in crime. I have a bucket list, if you have one too let’s compare 😉
2. I’m very loving and caring. I’d say I’m a warm person.
3. I love to look and smell amazing
4. Have a cat; not a cat lover
5. Pray daily and looking to improve my deen. Hope you do too.
6. Don’t understand football but will watch if there’s an incentive for me 😂
7. Love shopping and always best to shop with someone who genuinely has an opinion or doesn’t mind carrying the bags 🛍️
8. Very content with life. Firm believer in everything happening for a reason and despite being divorced it has made me the woman I am today.
9. Can cook but also love been cooked for. Even better if we cook together 😉
10. Love self care; your body is on loan from Allah swt and taking care of it is your responsibility. Also, looking physically attractive for your partner is important.
11. Sing, but poorly.
12. Want to take up hiking, joined a few groups but not started yet
13. Watch most genres of films except horror 😳
14. Petrified of heights - don’t have a death wish
15. Told I’m very attractive and look way younger than I my age.
16. Hate dramas unless it’s on Netflix
17. Can swim, hopefully you can too!
18. Love sushi… amongst other things
19. Tried gardening but plants don’t seem to like me 🪴
20. Love handbags, perfume and Jewellery; hint hint!
21. Coffee over tea unless it’s desi tea
22. Sweets over savoury
23. If I’m upset, I just need a cuddle and kiss - easily pacified lol. However, if you’ve upset me, might need more than an apology and cuddle …
24. Rarely wrong… but if I am, I will apologise eventually 😂
25. Favourite colour ‘red’ and possibly white
26. Favourite book: Pride and prejudice: love a good book
27. Favourite pass time: scrolling on TikTok 🙄. My kids tell me I’m too old for it!
28. ‘Heels’ - if the occasion calls
29. Dresses over jeans. Always modest.
30. 2 older kids, one lives with me
31. Down to earth 🌍; can be cheeky (playful) but never rude.
32. I can go on… but there are somethings I’ll reserve for you to ask 😉

There are a lot of things I’ve never tried and would love to with the right person. If the above sounds like someone you’d like to get to know, message me.

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What I Am Looking For
Kind, compassionate. Someone who is intelligent both mentally and emotionally. I enjoy learning and love listening, engaging in meaningful conversations which I find very attractive. I like articulate, educated men.

Someone smart in appearance, smells good, can hold stimulating conversations and has ambition in life.

I would ideally like someone romantic, if that’s not asking too much! Oh and not to forget cuddles! After a long day, there’s nothing better than a nice warm hug.

I value honesty.

Looking for someone who will be my friend first then my love. The first person I turn to for comfort, advice and opinion and vice versa.

The way a woman behaves in a relationship is a direct response to how her man behaves. The analogy of a garden: the more attention, time and love you give it, the better it grows.

In saying that, the woman needs to respect her man. Bottom line. The man has to be better than her, or she’ll get bored. She’ll disrespect him. He needs to be the alpha and lead. Again, many men think this is physical appearance and or aggression.

A man leads spiritually, emotionally in control, in finance, in love, initiates dates, calms the woman when she’s emotional. That’s attractive. Foul mouthed men, sloppy, lazy, disrespectful, mummy’s boys are just a real turn off; they are not leaders. I’m looking for alpha male energy. I’m smart, attractive and in tune with my emotions. I need someone who surpasses me. Someone I can look up to. Someone who I won’t get bored of.

Please don’t message me if you’ve not worked on yourself and looking for a fling. I’m not interested in any haram activities / relationship.


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Personal Information
My Citizenship
British
Country of Origin
United Kingdom
Willing to Relocate?
None
I am Looking to Marry
Unsure
My Income
Prefer not to say
Marital Status
Divorced
Would I like to have Children?
No
Do I have children?
Yes
My Living Arrangements?
Other
Country
United Kingdom
County/State
East Midlands
Distance
unknown
Appearance
My Height
1.60m (5' 3")
My Build
Medium
My Hair Colour
Dark brown
Colour of My Eyes
Hazel
Do I Smoke?
No
Do I Have Any Disabilities?
No
Education
My Education Level
Bachelors degree
Subject I Studied
Business
Language
My First Language
English
My Second Language
Gujerati
Work
My Profession
Education
My Job Title
Ask me!
Religion
Religiousness
Religious
My Sect
Sunni
Hijab/Niqab
Yes Hijab
Beard
Yes
Are You a Revert?
No
Do You Keep Halal?
I Always Keep Halal
Do You Perform Salaah?
Always